Responding: The Importance Of Defense And Reaction – OpEd
The recent incident in the Turkish Parliament, where an aggressor walked up to speaker MP Ahmet Şık and grabbed his shoulder during a speech, once again highlights how tense and physically confrontational politics can become. Despite being surprised by this assault, Ahmet Şık instinctively defended himself by throwing a punch in response, demonstrating that standing up to aggression is a natural reaction. However, such situations can also lead to injury, as seen when Ahmet Şık was knocked down by the aggressor’s punch.
It’s essential to respond to any form of attack, harassment, or physical intervention. Remaining silent or retreating in such circumstances can embolden the aggressor, increasing the likelihood of further harm. The aggressor needs to understand that you won’t cower or stay silent and that they will likely suffer some consequences as well. This understanding often prevents further attacks.
In schools, peer violence among children is quite common. A smart child should respond, at least to some degree, when faced with violence. Children should not remain passive; they must learn to defend themselves against such behavior.
This response isn’t limited to physical defense; it can also involve expressing oneself, seeking help from teachers or parents, or other means of addressing the situation. However, staying silent or submissive can make aggressors more confident and lead to an escalation of violence.
The same principle applies in politics, foreign relations, warfare, and the workplace. Failing to respond or remaining silent can provide a platform for the aggressor to inflict even greater harm. In diplomacy or business, responding to aggressive behavior doesn’t always require a physical or confrontational reaction; rather, it involves developing an appropriate strategy to control the situation and minimize potential damage.
Therefore, responding when necessary is crucial for survival and self-protection in any environment.
